Problem or Solution
Most of Us, and also people around say I need a solution. Wondering why in other side we never accept the solution idea come from somebody, he/she could be our boss, our couple, our neightbour, even our best friend. We keep making gruelling, Oh I cant do that, Oww I dont have time to do that, What happen to my boss, he looks happy when he sees I am in a trouble condition.. and so on.
May be because all of us are expert in gruelling, we never study about how should give a bad comment about something. There is no teacher teach how to make a gruelling, but we are already be an expert.
Bandura said people learn from a model, from many situation happen around, positive or negatif. So may be because of we see a lot of people gruelling, make us expert in gruelling.
Some people said its human, because as human we need attention then use gruelling to attract attention from people. Woouw.. Have we ever been realize that situation ? Is it kind of Underestimate for our humanity ? or Actually its happen but we never admit it ?
Lets start introspection, see whether I am a kind of that person or I still can focus on Solution not the problem ? Win Win Solution Oriented.
Where we are in Asianbrain teached by Anne Ahira how to become a person who always can get solution inside problem not problem inside the solution.
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